I swear I’m still gonna learn this dance baby. It’ll be coming at you when you least expect it!

'nuff said. Yay for the lost bois…  Yay for Julia!

Julia once bust this song out at a sing-along.  Happy to be transcending the patriarchal narrative with you forever baby!

Now I’m just cracking myself up.   A world without language is possible!  I agree with you J.dub that the intro to the song is better than the verse.

When I sat in the car belting this song outloud by myself I thought…wow.  I guess it takes the genderqueer black feminist love of a lifetime to make even the most overplayed, stereotypical, unimaginative, “baby-leave-yo-man-cause-I can-buy-you-more-bling-than-he-can” type songs TRANSFORM into a reason to pause and praise.

The very first time…

Julia and the Boi Band (Jocelyn, Ngowo, Jodi, and Gemini!) with the surprise performance of a lifetime at Julia’s 31st b-day bash.    (Romantics in training…take a lesson from the guru Julia…surprise your loved one at YOUR birthday party…she’ll never expect it and never forget it! :)

Julia at the helm of her gorgeous and talented boi band. SWOON!

Julia at the helm of her gorgeous and talented boi band. SWOON!

I swear I’m still gonna learn this dance baby. It’ll be coming at you when you least expect it!

'nuff said. Yay for the lost bois…  Yay for Julia!

Julia once bust this song out at a sing-along.  Happy to be transcending the patriarchal narrative with you forever baby!

Now I’m just cracking myself up.   A world without language is possible!  I agree with you J.dub that the intro to the song is better than the verse.

When I sat in the car belting this song outloud by myself I thought…wow.  I guess it takes the genderqueer black feminist love of a lifetime to make even the most overplayed, stereotypical, unimaginative, “baby-leave-yo-man-cause-I can-buy-you-more-bling-than-he-can” type songs TRANSFORM into a reason to pause and praise.

The very first time…

Julia and the Boi Band (Jocelyn, Ngowo, Jodi, and Gemini!) with the surprise performance of a lifetime at Julia’s 31st b-day bash.    (Romantics in training…take a lesson from the guru Julia…surprise your loved one at YOUR birthday party…she’ll never expect it and never forget it! :)

Julia at the helm of her gorgeous and talented boi band. SWOON!

Julia at the helm of her gorgeous and talented boi band. SWOON!

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aka---love songs that i once thought were cheesy that are now completely hot because I am so head over heels in queer transformative love!!!


julia:
may your 31st year invite the world to just fall all over itself with love and self expression.

everyone:
use this site as a sex-positive meditation on how love is everywhere all the time waiting to be activated.

love always,
lex

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